Bryan

Everything was beautiful and nothing hurt.

Reading

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A Pattern Language

Christopher Alexander


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    I’ve started selectively blocking JavaScript with a Safari extension, mostly on news sites. Just can’t take the garbage anymore, like banners and auto-playing videos. Most of the web is just unusable anymore, in my experience. Can we start over?

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    Is participation in the Micro.blog timeline an all or nothing affair?

    I saw the update about post-specific sharing for cross-posting, but what about right here on the Mb timeline? @help

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    Yesterday at the park.

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    I experience this thing where people talk over me all the time at work and it causes me to not want to speak up very often.

    I work overwhelmingly with women and I find my experience ironic given that the media has focused on men dominating work discussions in recent years.

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    Photography

    I had some issues with incompatible pickup screw sizes, but I got most of my Telecaster build put together yesterday. So far, I’m happy with how it is turning out.

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    Every once in a while, that sentimental feeling creeps in, and I miss the friendships and relationships that have come and gone.

    I know those relationships wouldn’t be the same today, even had we stayed in touch. I’m not the same person that I was. But I’m still in there, even if just a little.

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    Folks on the East Coast are getting a small taste of what the West Coast has experienced every year since I moved here in 2015. Here’s a screenshot I took in September 2020. At one point we were over 1,000 ppm here in the Tualatin Valley.

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    This is what I mean about men’s sizes not making sense to me anymore. This is a 2XL. I realize I’m not exactly a small man, but this is cotton and will shrink. In what universe should a 6 ft’ tall, fairly average-built man, be wondering if maybe he should be buying a 3XL?

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    As humans, we get so easily accostomed to things. Whether great or awful, almost anything can become normal.

    Essays

    If I could talk to my teenage self

    If I could talk to my teenage self, I would try to convey just how much value there is in being in a field that’s in high demand, and to maybe try to focus on getting a creative role in such a field.

    For the most part, I like what I do as a planner, but there is very little creativity, and the options are extremely limited in terms of where we can go. It hamstrings your ability to move about the country or world, or work remotely for yourself, when you have a career in a field that is so competitive and tied to locations.

    When looking for a job as a planner, not only does there have to be an …

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    One bummer about not being an early adopter of Micro.blog is that my first name is taken as a username by someone who posted 4 short updates in 2017/2018 and hasn’t posted since. Fists to the sky, @bryan.

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    One of my favorite lyrics:

    A good woman will pick you apart

    A box full of suggestions for your possible heart

    But you may be offended and you may be afraid

    But don't walk away, don't walk away

    “Land Locked Blues" by Bright Eyes

    Essays

    Trying to remain grateful for what we have despite feeling like we're outgrowing our house.

    I bought my house in 2016 before I was married or had kids. Coming from the Midwest, housing prices were pretty crazy out here in the Portland region. Not like the Bay Area by any means, but I only had my own income. I was pre-qualified for a mortgage based on my Midwest salary the year prior. I had very limited options, so I bought a short sale fixer upper. 

    When I moved in, the place was in really rough shape. It had been a rental and I'm told that the last renters had multiple animals, including a potbelly pig. I keep a copy of my inspection report, not only as a list of things that need to …

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    After napping on me for 2 hours, she was all cheery this afternoon.

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    Having been on Bluesky for a couple weeks now, I can see that it’s turning out to be a carbon copy of Twitter. Mastodon still seems way more positive to me.

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    There are few things I miss more than summer weekends on a lake somewhere in northern Michigan. Seeing everyone’s pictures this time of year sure doesn’t make that any easier on me.

    Oregon has a lot going for it, but that kind of lake cottage experience just isn’t one of them.

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    You folks who put links to longer blog posts in your timeline posts, how do you do that?

    I know if I post a longer one, it will automstically put the URL, but how are you pre-emptively doing that when the post apparently hasn’t been created until it is?

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    What’s one band you used to listen to (or still do) that never got any traction in terms of popularity?

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    One rabbit hole I find myself in sometimes is looking up bands who disbanded or who had one or two hits and then faded away. Often you can still find a few of the former members on YouTube.

    Neil Young is often quoted with the lyric, “It’s better to burn out than to fade away.” I choose neither.

    In a former life, I thought I wanted to be a big-time musician, but I’m glad I wasn’t. I’d much rather have the humble life I’ve lived in relative quiet and near total anonymity.

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    That Bill Burr bit where he talks about his wife finding open days on the calendar and filling them up with shit? No truer words have ever been spoken.

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    First harvest.

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    Just learned there’s a Zappa documentary from a couple years back on Hulu. Guess I know what I’m watching this weekend.

    hulu.com/movie/a3d996df-569c-4

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    I sat in a fast food joint for an hour recently because our wifi was out and it is shocking how many delivery orders I watched get picked up. People are really out there spending $50 on fast food delivery.

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    In today’s algorithm headaches, three artists Apple Music just won’t stop trying to play for me as a middle aged dad:

    1. Fleet Foxes
    2. Iron & Wine
    3. Bon Iver

    I wish they had a ‘block’ button.

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    People at 80% area median income spend 20% of their monthly budget on cars in the U.S.